Yes, the terms were undoubtably coined to be offensive in nature. I don't think there's much argument there. Having said this though, there is a bit of a difference between whether or not it's a man or woman uttering the phase. When women check each other out it's something of a competition and it has nothing to do with the Sheitel. The fact is that the sheitel defines the woman as being married. Add on to that the tight shirt, short skirt and thigh high boots and you've got the sheitel hooker.

Now, when a FRUM women passes by a Sheitel hooker and looks her up and down basically that's the jealous 'she's a sheitel hooker'. As if to say, bot if I looked like that, I'd probably flaunt it too.

Moving toward the male gender, it's fairly obivious that all guys are horny, so calling someone a Sheitel hooker or hot chani, while being ooffensive, is also something of a compliment. Since there's really little to be done about the matter here's my suggestion.

Next time you hear someone say this in public (especially when it's said about YOU) just turn around and say 'yeah, in your dreams buddy' and walk away with the knowledge that in some strange way the negative comment was actually a euphamistic praise for one of g-ds creations.

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